Should I have second child ??

Should I have 1 kid or should I have 2 kids…. ?? is surely a question which crosses every mother’s mind… same was going through my mind . After a lot of dilemma & a lot of thought process I decided that “I will not have 2 kids , So I will not give him a sibling ” but I will try to become one (sibling)for him .

It is an unique point of view that came to my mind which actually helped me to take a decision on having 2 kids or not .Becoming a sibling to your kid is possible (in reality) ,If I consider my case I was born and bought up in a joint family with more than 10 siblings and . Still I found my MOM to be my best secret keeper and buddy while compared to my siblings .Just we have to be more open minded to adopt the generation gap. I freely share my every details with my Mom even my teenage crush :)

Having one kid means “All what is mine will be for my kid “

My Money : Only kids means no property fights, which is the dark reality of having a siblings. All the childhood memories dies to get a piece of land or so. The sharing attitude does not work here which is considered to be the most powerful point of having 2 kid. So the entire childhood parents try to develop sharing attitude, just vanishes for any materialistic thing. Well for sharing attitude I keep on sharing his chocolates & game so that he gets habitual to that :P

My Love ,Time and Energy : I will invest my time and energy in my only kid to teach him good habit and in studies , rather than in up bring of second one. I am not doing it by choice but it is the only choice left for me .I had my first kid in my early 30s So if I go for second kid with a minimum gap of 5 , before which I actually can’t have second as I can’t justify the time with both of them , I will be nearly 36 + . So physically it will be challenging. I raised my kid independently only with my husband .So how I will justify the upbringing of the second kid. Well I have made my mind to become a sibling for my kid hope he gets all that which I had in my childhood…

Please note this is my option about having second kid but as everyone has their own journey it could not be appropriate for you .But the main point is follow your heart and not society's suggestion as you will be the one who will be taking care the new born no one else come over for help everytime.